'Blindsided' Nia Long breaks silence on Celtics head coach fiancé's AFFAIR with a female team staffer - vows to 'focus on my children at this difficult time': Club suspends him for a year

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  • Nia Long's fiance Ime Udoka, a former player turned coach, has been suspended from the Boston Celtics 
  • He was suspended over an inappropriate relationship with a staffer with whom he had a consensual affair 
  • Long, 51, shares a ten-year-old son with Udoka. She broke her silence on Friday after the affair emerged 
  • Udoka released a statement on Thursday apologizing for letting down his family and the team 
  • Long became a household name and American treasure as Lisa Wilkes in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air 
  • She also starred in Boyz In The Hood, Soul Food and Big Momma's House, and is a civil rights activist 
  • Her fiance's infidelity shocked fans around the world - they leaped to Nia's defense on social media  
Nia Long with fiance Ime Udoka in 2017. He has been suspended as the head coach of the Boston Celtics for an inappropriate relationship with a female staffer, despite being engaged to Long
Nia Long with fiance Ime Udoka in 2017. He has been suspended as the head coach of the Boston Celtics for an inappropriate relationship with a female staffer, despite being engaged to Long

Fresh Prince of Bel Air actress Nia Long has broken her silence today after learning that her Boston Celtics fiancé, Ime Udoka, cheated on her with one of his staffers. 

The starlet told TMZ in a statement that she was left 'blindsided' by the affair, that comes as she relocates to Boston to be with her longtime beau.

Long, 51, and Udoka, a former player turned coach who previously played for the San Antonio Spurs, have been together for more than a decade. 

They became engaged in 2015 but have never married, though they share a ten-year-old son. She also has another son from a previous relationship. 

This week, their family bliss was destroyed when the Boston Celtics suspended Udoka for violating ethics rules by having a consensual affair with the unnamed staffer. 

It's believed that is how Long discovered the infidelity.  

'The outpouring of love and support from family, friends and the community during this difficult time means so much to me,' Long said through her spokeswoman.

'I ask that my privacy be respected as I process the recent events. 

'Above all, I am a mother and will continue to focus on my children,' she said. 

Udoka, the Celtics' second-year head coach with a once-sterling reputation, was suspended for all of the upcoming season on Thursday over 'multiple' unspecified violations of team rules. 

In a statement on Thursday night, he said: 'I want to apologize to our players, fans, the entire Celtics organization, and my family for letting them down. 

'I am sorry for putting the team in this difficult situation, and I accept the team's decision.

'Out of respect for everyone involved, I will have no further comment.' 

Long with the couple's ten-year-old son recently
Long with the couple's ten-year-old son recently
Long with the couple's ten-year-old son recently
Long with the couple's ten-year-old son recently
Long, 51, and Udoka, 45, have been together for over a decade. They are shown together at the Barclays Center in New York last August
Long, 51, and Udoka, 45, have been together for over a decade. They are shown together at the Barclays Center in New York last August
Udoka and Long with their son, Kez, in 2018. He is now ten. She also has an older son, Massai, from a previous relationship (shown together)
Udoka and Long with their son, Kez, in 2018. He is now ten. She also has an older son, Massai, from a previous relationship (shown together)
Incredulity: Nia's fans and friends tweeted their rage and disbelief om Friday
Incredulity: Nia's fans and friends tweeted their rage and disbelief om Friday

Udoka is said to have suffered a 'significant financial penalty', though the amount has not been disclosed. 

The 45-year-old is said to have had an improper relationship with a female member of staff. 

That woman has not been named. 

In the team statement naming assistant Joe Mazzulla as interim coach, Boston said Udoka's future would be determined 'at a later date.' 

Long became a household name with her role in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air as Lisa Wilkes, Will Smith's girlfriend. 

She also starred in Boyz In The Hood, Soul Food and Big Momma's House. 

The beloved actress is also the recipient of three NAACP Image Awards and a Black Reel Award. 

As news of the affair spread across social media this week, Long's fans and famous friends leaped to her defense. 

Many chastised Udoka for his indiscretion, asking how he could have betrayed the actress - a universally popular star and one of the most beautiful actresses of her generation.

'Sending nothing but love to Nia Long. 

'We're not letting a man, who didn't recognize the luxury her presence was, dim all her beauty and glory. 

'Matter of fact, we need a Nia Long national holiday!' tweeted New York Congressman Jamaal Bowmann. 

'Nia Long has an 100% approval rating with Black America and Ime Udoka is about to understand that,' added film producer Van Lathan. 

'Cheating on Nia Long? End of days has to be upon us because ain't NO WAY,' added producer Nina Parker. 

American sweetheart: Long shot to fame in roles like Lisa Wilkes in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air and Brandi in Boyz In The Hood. She is well known for keeping clear of scandal, and only ever appearing in the press for her acting roles or activism
American sweetheart: Long shot to fame in roles like Lisa Wilkes in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air and Brandi in Boyz In The Hood. She is well known for keeping clear of scandal, and only ever appearing in the press for her acting roles or activism
American sweetheart: Long shot to fame in roles like Lisa Wilkes in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air and Brandi in Boyz In The Hood. She is well known for keeping clear of scandal, and only ever appearing in the press for her acting roles or activism
American sweetheart: Long shot to fame in roles like Lisa Wilkes in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air and Brandi in Boyz In The Hood. She is well known for keeping clear of scandal, and only ever appearing in the press for her acting roles or activism

Udoka joined the Celtics as head coach in the 2021-2022 season. 

While he was settling in, Nia and their ten-year-old son remained in New York City, where they live in Brooklyn. 

Sources however say she was planning to relocate to Chicago to support her fiancé, and had been house hunting this week. 

She became a national treasure in the 1990s with her roles in films and TV shows that celebrated black culture and featured predominantly black casts. 

Long is also well-known for keeping herself clean of scandal - fans on Friday noted how she only ever appeared in the press for her acting roles or activist causes. 

He is shown, left, playing for the San Antonio Spurs in 2007
He is shown, left, playing for the San Antonio Spurs in 2007
He joined the Celtics as head coach last year
He joined the Celtics as head coach last year